Giving back feels great—unless your help secretly creates more harm than good.

Donating feels like the ultimate good deed. You clean out your closet, write a check, or drop off canned goods and walk away with that warm glow of “I did something good today.” But here’s the uncomfortable truth: sometimes, what we think is helping actually causes more problems for the people and organizations we’re trying to support. Well-meaning donations can clog up resources, create waste, or even undermine local economies and dignity.
It’s not about shaming you for wanting to help—your heart is in the right place. It’s about becoming more mindful so that your generosity actually supports, rather than burdens. Once you know better, you can give in ways that truly empower and uplift. Before your next big declutter or fundraiser, check out these 10 common charitable habits that quietly backfire.